Sociability leads to pardon!
The question of forgiveness arises when
misconduct/mistake happens. since getting forgiven from else is an inborn
nature of man we should know some convenient ways to get it. Now I feel like to
express some behavioral and functional formula that I subconsciously use in my
everyday-life.
Confession grows sympathy:
I see when I confess my fault
it is half done. it rapidly makes sympathy for me. Even the person who claim against
me, he starts thinking that I am
respecting to his claim. so easily i can make him convince and get forgiven.
Relating with a nearby name:
Calling with a near-call is
another idea for getting forgiven. such I unfortunately put my foot on other’s.
he may be aggressive on me. even intends to take a reaction. here i can use
some nearby-relative/friendly-names. for instance > Uncle, can’t i expect
pardon from you? > You can pardon
thinking of your son > if you don’t forgive me who can do this>You are
like my elder brother and so on...
Uttering sorry-words:
There may have some degrees
of fault. so degree of confession should
be according to manner of that fault. such i did a big mistake to my
neighbor.to say only `sorry` is not sufficient here. i should say `dately sorry`,
‘so so sorry ‘, ‘what a stupid am I’!
and so on... that can affect my neighbour rapidly.
Sharing intention with others:
Every work I do has an
intention. So any behave from me may
mean negatively to my neighvours or create misunderstanding. Hence from here
he/they makes a sterotipe in his mind about me. so later , any work done by me
may be interpreted to him from that intention. so sharing my intention
regarding that task immeditely is likely a best option that can save me from wrong-imagination in now and tomorrow
There are some other practices.
showing show-cause, No burgaining, being introvert, etc.
In every day life I face some unexpected
bahaviors. it should be solved with reconciliotion/negociation
for a fresh mind and peaceful environment.
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